Glad to see some responses to my question and guys take notes
When do you ask for the second date?:
Kim from Drums: "2 days, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't talk to the person before then"
Sam (Girl) from LCCC (Pretty sure she doesn't live there): "Well it all depends on if you were a bad date or not"
And finally got a guy response
Chuck from Wapwallopen: "You don't ask, you just say lets go here tonight. Make it seem like it's already implied"
Thanks ladies (and Chuck). Keep'em coming in firstname.lastname@example.org